Lauren, there's so much value in this article that I hardly know where to begin or what not to emphasize. Cutting through my paralysis, please know that I applaud your insights on how to be truly helpful and make a difference for an aging, declining loved one AND for ourselves as caregivers. I share your frustrations about the lack of friends and family visiting and ponder the complexity of why. Still, I also know we're not alone, as many caregivers mention the conundrum. (For a heartwarming "fix" on this, see: https://sammiemarsalli.substack.com/p/why-do-my-wifes-lifelong-friends.) Thank you for a beautifully written post that's full of helpful tips and sound advice.
I hear you, Lauren - only child here too. Thanks for sharing and providing these great tips.
My friends are in different countries so Whatsapp, and FaceTime are SO important. Sometimes the time difference works in our favour, but it's not always easy to schedule a good time, so there's a lot of texting. In the most difficult times, online Carer Forums have been a lifeline, and a couple of those contacts are now friends outside the forum too.
This is so helpful — and so heartbreaking. I'm sorry for the bitterness you still feel. I hope talking about it makes it a little easier to bear! xo
Lauren, there's so much value in this article that I hardly know where to begin or what not to emphasize. Cutting through my paralysis, please know that I applaud your insights on how to be truly helpful and make a difference for an aging, declining loved one AND for ourselves as caregivers. I share your frustrations about the lack of friends and family visiting and ponder the complexity of why. Still, I also know we're not alone, as many caregivers mention the conundrum. (For a heartwarming "fix" on this, see: https://sammiemarsalli.substack.com/p/why-do-my-wifes-lifelong-friends.) Thank you for a beautifully written post that's full of helpful tips and sound advice.
What a kind comment! Thank you ❤️
I hear you, Lauren - only child here too. Thanks for sharing and providing these great tips.
My friends are in different countries so Whatsapp, and FaceTime are SO important. Sometimes the time difference works in our favour, but it's not always easy to schedule a good time, so there's a lot of texting. In the most difficult times, online Carer Forums have been a lifeline, and a couple of those contacts are now friends outside the forum too.